Perhaps I should explain myself more completely. Most of the girls I have asked out in regards to this particular scenario have been roughly my age (between 24-27) and we're not girls that I knew extremely well (friends of friends, girls that I worked with, etc...). Most of them were not what I would consider to be incessant party people or full blown alcoholics and I would argue that they, for the most part, had their shit together from what I could tell.
Needless to say, I'm not going after slutty 21 year old college juniors who are just trying to get smashed or I could have answered this question myself.
Further, on some of these I have tried to put forward a different plan that would not involve drinking and for one reason or another they wouldn't be into it.
Originally posted by: Bonsai
Why is there a period between her agreeing to hang out and deciding what to do?
I might have worded this wrong, it's more of a her agreeing to hang out, wanting to go out for drinks, we set a date for it, and at some point when we converse before the set date she would find out and back out (this is one case in particular, the rest have been more right off the bat.)
I mean, it all comes down to I'm obviously not asking out the right type of girl, but as I've said before I feel like I'm varying it up to avoid these pitfalls but it all seems to come back to that. I don't know, it's an odd situation.
Originally posted by: Dan Conner
Ask out girls who don't drink. Problem solved.
Also, I literally don't know any girls on a personal level who don't drink.
Originally posted by: InTheButtLikeWhat
why don't you drink? just curious.
It never really appealed to me. I tried it when I was in high school, didn't like how any of it tasted and/or how it made me feel so I didn't do it again. That's about it. No moral crusade here.