Long story. I'll take the time to explain the details now.
We used to work together at a restaurant. She also lives directly across the street from where my older sister used to live. I hang out with my older sister on a daily basis (more like friends than siblings). Her ex-husband was also the grandchild of my great-grandmas best friend. She actually has towels in her kitchen that my great-grandma made for her. She used to hear stories about me when I was younger. Anyways, we hung out on occasion at my sisters house, smoked a little weed and whatnot. We always thought that the other was pretty cool. I had the hots for her, but never planned on doing a damn thing about it on account of the age difference. Eventually, I started hanging out at her house. Just drinking wine, smoking pot, having a good time. Never thought anything would come of it, and never ever thought that those feelings were reciprocated. Then one day, after about 2 years of knowing/hanging out with each other, she told me she wanted me to see her record collection. I didn't think anything of it, so I was completely suprised when I went back to her room (which I had been in before) and she told me she liked me and asked if I thought we should kiss. I was like "hell yeah!". So we made out, then went back into the living room and snuggled on her living room floor. 3 days later we made love for the first time. The rest just fell into place, and within 2 months I was moved in and we were together for 3 years.