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sherman

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June 2 2010 9:22 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
Do you think it's okay to wonder "what if" about certain people you used to date while presently in a relationship?

Do you have any "ones that got away"?
Sandy Dickhands
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June 2 2010 9:24 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
if i ever thought "what if" about one that "got away" i later realized it was only because i was unhappy in my current situation
Captain Ahab
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June 2 2010 9:28 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
sure, why wouldnt it be ok?
yes i have thought about it and yes i think there is one that i missed the boat on
emofacial
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June 2 2010 9:31 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
yes

no
Dan.
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June 2 2010 9:34 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
I've thought about it before.

Second chances are awesome.
Dianana
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June 2 2010 9:39 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
Everyone I dated sucked so hard compared to Wren. I really used to think that I'd be unhappy forever and that I'd have to settle. What a dumb, depressed 20 year old I was. Anyway, I cannot relate.
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June 2 2010 10:05 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
I can barely keep anyone interested long enough to have it be considered a rellationship, but I have looked up girls I dated in HS.
Dated a few of them.
Found out I was better off just thinking of them as a fantasy then a reality.
thisgirldesire
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June 2 2010 10:05 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
my ex from college stands to be my best relationship. everything was awesome. we never fought. we were good friends and great together. i still wonder if that could have been more, but we were both younger and he still has problems with the future, so who knows.

one of my very good friends and i have a lot of love for each other, but we've never actually dated. we've talked about it and we're alright with never dating. sure, i'd still love to have a relationship with him, but when weighed with possibly losing the friendship...i don't know. i guess he was the one that got away...kinda. haha

i don't think that it's bad to think about it though. only if it ends up destroying your relationship. that's when it's bad.
Brian FELLOW
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June 2 2010 10:14 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
thought there was one that got away, tried for years to get her back while ruining a lot of other good things in the process.
realized i don't even necessarily like her as a person, am glad that we don't date.
AtWarWithAmeliaLOL
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June 2 2010 11:26 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
I thought "what if" about people that I'd never dated.
Davey.
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June 2 2010 11:28 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
nope.
i sometimes lol about how terrible and different my life would be if past relationships had worked out, but i never for a second think of them as missed opportunites.
life/deathnopoint
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June 2 2010 11:31 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
Not unless I have doubts about the one I am currently in. In which case, I'm not giving the person a fair chance and shouldn't be in that relationship in the first place.
Sandy Dickhands
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June 2 2010 11:33 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
Originally posted by: life/deathnopoint

Not unless I have doubts about the one I am currently in. In which case, I'm not giving the person a fair chance and shouldn't be in that relationship in the first place.



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AtWarWithAmeliaLOL
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June 2 2010 11:33 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
It's not cheating if it's in your head.
Aunt_Pee
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June 2 2010 11:34 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
i wonder what if about most of my "girl friends" ive only had 3 serious relationships they each lasted a little over two years. everyone else is just a lay.

also, sniping is for lovers.
life/deathnopoint
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June 2 2010 11:34 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
Originally posted by: AtWarWithAmeliaLOL

It's not cheating if it's in your head.



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