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Flip Wilson22

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July 30 2010 12:34 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
is this possible? this has never worked out well for me but now i may give it a try. must keep it completely platonic though
kyle_n
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July 30 2010 12:39 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
uhm. so i'm friends with an ex. sorta. her boyfriend gets weird when we talk or hang out so we don't really much. there is always a tension in my experience.
Brett Weir
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July 30 2010 12:42 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
this is a very true yet generic response, but it allll depends on the ex couple and the newer significant others etc.
blackeyes
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July 30 2010 12:45 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
still friends with most of my exs, only really ever had one real bad breakup
asking_for_it
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July 30 2010 12:47 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
i think it depends on a lot of factors. probably the most important being whether or not the break up was mutual. if it didn't get too serious and shit just got weird or you just weren't feeling it, it's usually not difficult to be friends. even if you're in a situation where the relationship just kinda runs its course, it was nice while it lasted, it's just old time to move on, even that can be ok depending on circumstances. but i've never been able to be friends when it's a bad break up, where the trust has been broken, it's hard, but mostly impossible to be friends. however, everyone is different. but in my personal experience it really doesn't work out and when it does you're not really "friends" in the websters dictionary sense of the word, but more like acquaintances in passing.
addy
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July 30 2010 1:09 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
Tried to be a friend to an ex. Ended up having sex with her and ruining alot of really good things in my life. Never worked out for me and probably never will.
Rina.
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July 30 2010 1:12 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
Exes become exes for a reason...
I think having an ex as a friend is okay, however, when you become involved in another relationship, sometimes it gets weird. I
guess it depends on the people involved. I personally will not go out/hang out with an ex if I'm in a relationship. I think its disrespectful. Talking is okay to a point, but that could get out of hand also, especially if one person still has strong feelings involved...
Digital_Satan
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July 30 2010 7:30 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
Originally posted by: Rina.

Exes become exes for a reason...
I think having an ex as a friend is okay, however, when you become involved in another relationship, sometimes it gets weird. I
guess it depends on the people involved. I personally will not go out/hang out with an ex if I'm in a relationship. I think its disrespectful. Talking is okay to a point, but that could get out of hand also, especially if one person still has strong feelings involved...






yeah, i have 3 thumbs.
chocolate juice
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July 30 2010 9:53 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
I don't see, the point you no longer relate to each other and you're not fucking. What could you possibly have to share through friendship?

Also, I would back hand my girl if she was trying to communicate with someone she used to sleep with.
William Munny
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July 30 2010 10:08 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
unbelievably, I still talk with and x that cost me 130k, I was almost certain I wanted to burn the house down with her in it, she's lucky she has an amazing little girl that I truely adore, and still talk to occasionally
cbrickhouse
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July 30 2010 10:09 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
terrible idea

also

Originally posted by: William Munny

burn the house down with her in it

chocolate juice
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July 30 2010 10:23 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
Originally posted by: William Munny

unbelievably, I still talk with and x that cost me 130k, I was almost certain I wanted to burn the house down with her in it, she's lucky she has an amazing little girl that I truely adore, and still talk to occasionally



so are you mildly retarded i.e. learning disability accompanied by low self esteem or just retarded?
hanszimmer
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July 30 2010 10:26 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
it's pretty hard to do. especially if she fucks some random dude 1 day after you break up.
cbrickhouse
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July 30 2010 10:27 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
she was probably fucking random dudes while you were dating
hanszimmer
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cbrickhouse
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July 30 2010 10:31 AM   QuickQuote Quote  
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