I know that this was the right thing to do..but yet I feel so hollow and selfish..and yet free and a huge weight has been lifted from me. Now though..I don't know where to go. For 2 years I've had someone help me take care of things and now all that shared responsibility is hitting me like a ton of bricks. It's been a rough road. She wants to work it out however...perhaps rekindle or what not..but I've all but moved on. So at this point we'll sort out our finances..see who gets the car...and move on. 7 years. 2 engaged.