how do you go on a fucking date!? 39 replies, 12311 views

heathe.
10/20/2005 7:31:00 PM
so yeah. im a single. its driving me nuts, bc ive been, like, not single for about 3 years. just need a bit of advice. how do i go about this nonsense?
heathe.
10/20/2005 7:34:00 PM
yeah, i sure am.
life/deathnopoint
10/20/2005 7:38:00 PM
Be yourself and don't put up with any bullshit.
sup sluts
10/20/2005 7:45:00 PM
write a note that says

Do you like me?
[ ] yes [ ] no
thisgirldesire
10/20/2005 7:58:00 PM
flirt with them on a messageboard after meeting them at a party and hope they ask you out on a date and don't bail.
(brian)
10/20/2005 8:50:00 PM
Originally posted by: wasting

dont be ugly.... too bad for you

zing.
lolo ferrari
10/21/2005 12:12:00 AM
dont be so harsh on the girl...
its not so weird to not know how to "date".

i dont fucking know thats for sure. shit either works that night or it doesnt. courtship rarely happens anymore.

id say just go out, have fun. if it works, shit will happen naturally.
if it doesnt, have some balls and dont lead the dude on. end it that night.

it should be fairly obvious whether or not you want to see the dude again.
and the real problem lies in getting the date more than it does going on the date.
Man is Truth
10/21/2005 1:35:00 AM
"dating" is gay and unnatural, and at best a pretty ambiguous thing that means something entirely different for just about any two fuckin people. No one understands it- why is everyone being an asshole to this poor girl? lol
MoMetal,MoProblems
10/21/2005 12:06:00 PM
Jerk a nigga off. If he puts up a fight, he's not for you.
Sarcastic Existence
10/21/2005 12:11:00 PM
^Haha.
Joe Boccuto
10/21/2005 12:12:00 PM
Originally posted by:heathe.

so yeah. im a single. its driving me nuts, bc ive been, like, not single for about 3 years. just need a bit of advice. how do i go about this nonsense?

1. stop looking like you do

2. get past step 1
smorgasgeorge
10/21/2005 1:08:00 PM
Asking someone out to lunch is usually a pretty good bet. Everyone needs to eat sometime, meeting for it usually gives you something to talk about (i.e. the trip there and the day you've had so far), it's cheap so both people can pay their own way, and if the person is boring, it will be over soon enough.
carl0
10/22/2005 10:19:00 AM
Don't act desperate.
Eric Paradox
10/22/2005 2:04:00 PM
the couple of you calling this girl ugly must either like men or just be crazy. seriously.
death metal dan
10/22/2005 2:11:00 PM
Originally posted by:thisgirldesire

flirt with them on a messageboard after meeting them at a party and hope they ask you out on a date and don't bail.

Hahaha.

I wonder if I've ever met this girl at a party. I'll take her out. But bailing afterwards is still up in the air.
RomeoKiller
10/22/2005 2:58:00 PM
its not about how you go about it its about how you find the person you want to go out with and just ask them to the movies or out somewhere its as simple as that and just see what come outs of that in the past 2 years the longest i have been single was a month and that was my choice so just take my advice dont wait for them to come to you you should go to them
Weneedtounite
10/22/2005 7:16:00 PM
Do you go anywhere to hang out regularly? Coffeeshops, Bars? Casually start talking to someone sometime and just have a conversation. If by the end, she seems interested, or wants to hang out....ask her to go to lunch or something with you......it's just lunch...there's not expectations, and nobody will feel obligated to do anything.
viva hate
10/23/2005 3:45:00 AM
um don't ask me i'm a social retard.
mokinoie
10/23/2005 4:12:00 AM
I am retarded at dating like whoa. But whatever, I'm not losing sleep over it.
nick danger
10/23/2005 5:01:00 AM
Do you have any chloroform?
nick danger
10/24/2005 1:55:00 PM
^ Is she telling us to go gay?
nick danger
10/24/2005 2:08:00 PM
Hah, I was kidding. But I also thought you meant a male wingman.

That's actually a really good idea. Dang.
JasoninPA
10/24/2005 2:23:00 PM


If you are out with a girl, other women usually assume that you are dating that girl, and therefore off limits.
-Jeremy-
10/24/2005 2:40:00 PM
Originally posted by: Jason


If you are out with a girl, other women usually assume that you are dating that girl, and therefore off limits.


Then again, some girls enjoy a challenge. Although, those aren't typically the kind of girls I would want to get involved with.
death metal dan
10/24/2005 2:55:00 PM
Originally posted by:katestraight

Originally posted by:Jason


If you are out with a girl, other women usually assume that you are dating that girl, and therefore off limits.

jason you are so wrong! people want what they think they cant have! trust me. how times have you had a dry spell with women, then you start talking to one, and then out of no where these other girls try talking to you?


Kate is right. And it's the worst fucking thing ever.
JasoninPA
10/24/2005 3:08:00 PM


I don't know, I really haven't had a dry spell. Its one of my many problems.