Step parents 36 replies, 21683 views

viva hate
1/12/2011 7:50:00 AM
I'm not talking about the shitty movie. Any of you have crappy step parents? I know this has probably been done before. Sorry.


The lady my dad married when I was about 16 is awful. I wouldn't even call her a step mom.

Now, my father and I were never close, but whenever he attempts to "reconnect" with me and form a relationship, she's a big factor in why I stay away.


The last time I called their house, she answered (she always does). I said "Hello, is Jeff there? (Silence....) This is Liz"

"Uhhh WHO??" All bitchy.

"His daughter"

(Silence) "oooh hey liz"

This happens every time I used to call. I've known the bitch since I was about 14. She is a super jealous alcoholic psycho, and has always thought my dad was cheating on her. So, whenever I call she thinks I'm some skank trying to get a piece of her man. Ew. Yikes.

She's done other weird things, like if we're on the phone and it's kind of late she cops an attitude and says he has to get off the phone all loud so I can hear. Bitch please. So, I just stay away to avoid the awkwardness. I told my mom I wanted to be honest with him when I meet up for lunch with him, but she said be nice. Bleh. Stupid families.
xAJDELAWAREx
1/12/2011 8:06:00 AM
Fuck. My browser is messing up.

I type in pahardcore.com and it redirects me to www.livejournal.com/vivahate
Rina.
1/12/2011 8:08:00 AM
My dad met my stepmom at the Hungarian club whe I was about 8. He was the club treasurer and she was the trashy bartender.
Anyway, I was always and still am a daddys girl and she hated it. She was always super jealous and paranoid. He always took my side and she would get pissed off and tell hom she was leaving. Then she would take her drunk, puerto rican drunk ass, and drive around in her shitty white pinto. She would always come back within 10 min.
Now, about 20 years later, shes a little better. However, my dad still needs to keep it a secret if he helps me with anything financially or buys me anything. Funny cause hes the one with the pension from the postal service and had military benefits.
Wall of text...
xAJDELAWAREx
1/12/2011 8:11:00 AM
I like that the Hungarian Club bartender is PR.
viva hate
1/12/2011 8:11:00 AM
Who didn't realize AJ was gone/miss him at all? This dude here. Eat 12 dicks, jerkoff.

Thanks for the serious reply rina. Kinda in the same boat. When I was 18 and he wanted to help me a little bit with a car, she got all psycho. I said I'd handle it on my own. Oh well!
mandakatzz(deleted)
1/12/2011 8:13:00 AM
My stepdad is 35yrs old. My mom started dating him when he was 22. They married when he was 25. He is 9yrs older than me. He is also a alcoholic/drug addict who has been unemployed for 3years. He treats my mom like shit. But she stays with him. I use to care but I got enough of my own shit to worry about so fuck my moms stupidity.

My real father lives in Carlisle and is a cook at dennys. Ive met him twice in my whole life.

No daddy syndrom haha.
Rina.
1/12/2011 8:14:00 AM
Originally posted by: xAJexDELAWAREx

I like that the Hungarian Club bartender is PR.

i know, how does that work?
joey.
1/12/2011 8:42:00 AM
Originally posted by: mandakatzz

My stepdad is 35yrs old. My mom started dating him when he was 22. They married when he was 25. He is 9yrs older than me. He is also a alcoholic/drug addict who has been unemployed for 3years. He treats my mom like shit. But she stays with him. I use to care but I got enough of my own shit to worry about so fuck my moms stupidity.

My real father lives in Carlisle and is a cook at dennys. Ive met him twice in my whole life.

No daddy syndrom haha.

I don't know if I can even handle a glimpse into a life so hard and marred by tragedy such as yours.
Shaina.B
1/12/2011 8:44:00 AM
when my dad remarried, I was 17, he told me about her 3 months ahead of the wedding. and 2 weeks before the wedding he told me i had to find a new place to live. He cheated on my mom with that passive agressive, controlling, cunt. Last time I tried to spend time with my dad and start building a relationship again was passover a couple years ago. he tried to make a deep fried turkey, which I tried to eat, which made me projectile vomit for about 4 hours straight that night. the next morning I come down to the kitchen for a cup of coffee, and she has one ready to go, sitting at the table. then all interrogator like, she starts asking how long I've been bulemic.
bitch, do I look like I throw up after I eat?! fuck no.
Brian FELLOW
1/12/2011 9:03:00 AM
my mom has been married to my stepdad since 93. he's a little old fashioned about rules, but he's a great guy. Looking back on the situation as an adult, the dude treated me just like he did his own son without a second thought. I'm pretty lucky because almost everybody I know with stepparents fucking hate them.
Pollcat
1/12/2011 9:20:00 AM
My steppop is wonderful.
kyle_n
1/12/2011 9:21:00 AM
I have a step mother and a step father. I can't really complain about either of them too much.

My step mom is a super sheltered lady from maine, and thats my only complaint. In general she is nice and wholesome and has always tried to be close with my brothers and I.

My step dad used to take us out camping and taught us a little about photography and stuff. He is always looking for get rich quick schemes.
Chris_High
1/12/2011 9:29:00 AM
I had a Step-Mom pretty much my whole life. She was always a royal scumbag, talking shit all the time about my sister calling her fat and lazy when my sister was only like 13 or 14, the bitch also worked us like slaves and made comments about she hoped our Mom would get into a car accident when she would come to visit us and shit. My Dad and her got married after like eleven years together when I was like 16 and year later he got Cancer for the first time. He had surgery and seemed to have beaten it but about a year after that it came back. This time it was horrible, he didnt make it. I was 17 at the time so I was supposed to get like $600 dollars a month from Social Security but she took every dime of it, I was living with my Grandma as soon as my Dad passed I couldnt take it living with her any longer so me and especially my Grandma could have used that money but we never saw any of it. Also come to find out that my Dad's Last Will & Testament were oddly changed a week before he died. In that time he was completely fucked up from the Chemo and all the powerful Opiates they had him on so he was Hallucinating half the time. His signature looks so fucked up, we cant find these so called Notary's that my Stepmom had their to witness it. So obviously fuck that bitch. She is one woman I would kill with my barehands and go to jail for life with a smile on my face.
brian.
1/12/2011 9:37:00 AM
Originally posted by: mandakatzz

My stepdad is 35yrs old. My mom started dating him when he was 22. They married when he was 25. He is 9yrs older than me. He is also a alcoholic/drug addict who has been unemployed for 3years.


sounds like a math problem

"how many years after the step dad turned 16 did mandakatz suck her first dick?"
brian.
1/12/2011 9:38:00 AM
Originally posted by: Shaina.B

he tried to make a deep fried turkey, which I tried to eat, which made me projectile vomit for about 4 hours straight that night.


how'd he fuck it up? didn't fry it long enough?
Shaina.B
1/12/2011 10:12:00 AM
Originally posted by: brian.

Originally posted by: Shaina.B

he tried to make a deep fried turkey, which I tried to eat, which made me projectile vomit for about 4 hours straight that night.



how'd he fuck it up? didn't fry it long enough?

no idea, it tasted good but it wrecked my stomach.

my stepdad is pretty solid though. He and my mom were highschool sweethearts. she was married for 20 years and had 2 kids, and he remained a bachelor. they ran into each other when my mom moved back to her home town to take care of my grandfather. and they fell in love again.they're so cute, and he treats her like gold. so that makes me happy.
Dianana
1/12/2011 10:26:00 AM
Originally posted by: Chris_High

I had a Step-Mom pretty much my whole life. She was always a royal scumbag, talking shit all the time about my sister calling her fat and lazy when my sister was only like 13 or 14, the bitch also worked us like slaves and made comments about she hoped our Mom would get into a car accident when she would come to visit us and shit. My Dad and her got married after like eleven years together when I was like 16 and year later he got Cancer for the first time. He had surgery and seemed to have beaten it but about a year after that it came back. This time it was horrible, he didnt make it. I was 17 at the time so I was supposed to get like $600 dollars a month from Social Security but she took every dime of it, I was living with my Grandma as soon as my Dad passed I couldnt take it living with her any longer so me and especially my Grandma could have used that money but we never saw any of it. Also come to find out that my Dad's Last Will & Testament were oddly changed a week before he died. In that time he was completely fucked up from the Chemo and all the powerful Opiates they had him on so he was Hallucinating half the time. His signature looks so fucked up, we cant find these so called Notary's that my Stepmom had their to witness it. So obviously fuck that bitch. She is one woman I would kill with my barehands and go to jail for life with a smile on my face.

Wow, that's completely fucked. I'm sorry
Amanda OMGWTF
1/12/2011 11:36:00 AM
both my parents and stepparents realize i am the boss of everything and everyone, so there have been no problems.

while i am completely serious about that, on a more genuine note, there were a few bumps along the road. most occurred when i was like 10-13 years old, so even though they would seem trivial now, they were really painful then.

like when my stepmom and her two kids moved in, one of the kids got "my" bedroom, and my canopy bed. the one i woke up in on christmas morning when i was like 5. it was a hand-me-down from my aunt, and one of the only real pieces of furniture in our house (we were poor). i was like 9-10 years old at the time and lived with my mom, so it's not like i used the room every day, but still. the other kid and i got our own rooms downstairs and my dad let me pick out all new bedding and decorations and allowed me to paint it lime green (a hot color at the time)...but that other room was MY room with my "princess bed."

i seriously turn back into an angry, very hurt 10 year old when i think about it. my mom said i was seriously the most angry child she's ever known, haha.

the princess bed got trashed, by the way. she broke it.
Chris_High
1/12/2011 11:40:00 AM
Originally posted by: Dianana

Originally posted by: Chris_High

I had a Step-Mom pretty much my whole life. She was always a royal scumbag, talking shit all the time about my sister calling her fat and lazy when my sister was only like 13 or 14, the bitch also worked us like slaves and made comments about she hoped our Mom would get into a car accident when she would come to visit us and shit. My Dad and her got married after like eleven years together when I was like 16 and year later he got Cancer for the first time. He had surgery and seemed to have beaten it but about a year after that it came back. This time it was horrible, he didnt make it. I was 17 at the time so I was supposed to get like $600 dollars a month from Social Security but she took every dime of it, I was living with my Grandma as soon as my Dad passed I couldnt take it living with her any longer so me and especially my Grandma could have used that money but we never saw any of it. Also come to find out that my Dad's Last Will & Testament were oddly changed a week before he died. In that time he was completely fucked up from the Chemo and all the powerful Opiates they had him on so he was Hallucinating half the time. His signature looks so fucked up, we cant find these so called Notary's that my Stepmom had their to witness it. So obviously fuck that bitch. She is one woman I would kill with my barehands and go to jail for life with a smile on my face.

Wow, that's completely fucked. I'm sorry

Thanks. The past is the past though.Still... fuck that ho.
Bonsai
1/12/2011 11:42:00 AM
Love my stepmom. I generally refer to her as "my dad's wife" or by name, because she was never a maternal figure in any way. But she is hilarious and good to my dad, and she has been the catalyst to a lot of positive changes he's made. The two of them together are really fun to be around and it's obvious that they have a great relationship.

My stepdad is fucking retarded. He and my mom haven't even talked in 4+ years, but they are still married. He's a paki. Tha she met 9nline when I was 11ish. Told her he was a 39 year old widow, a professor, etc. Yeeeeah, dude was 22 and conned American women for a living. He met lonely housewives, told them he loved them the first time they talked, then convinced them to divorce their husbands and send him the settlement money. Quality dude. Even after I outed him, my mom bought into more lies and ended up going overseas to be with him. She didn't tell anyone she was going, just disappeared for nearly a year. When we finally heard from her, it was because he'd set her up and had his friends rob her and she needed help getting back to the states. A few years later, she went over again and married him. He came to the states for maybe 3 months and was the biggest asshole I've ever met, and he drained my mom's 401k in just the first 2 months. Useless human being. My mom realized that she didn't care about him anymore and cheated on him the entire time he was here. Then she shipped him off to Dubai at the first opportunity. Class acts all around.

My mom has awful taste and is one of those people who can't be alone, so she clings to the first guy who shows her attention. Her current boyfriend is right on par with her husband. Useless and incompetant mooches with the emotional intelligence and maturity of 5 year olds. Yay.
baconanddrugs
1/12/2011 11:53:00 AM
This thread is pretty depressing.
emogeddon
1/12/2011 12:00:00 PM
my stepfather sucked but he hung himself in the garage years ago, so that's not an issue anymore.
Jess.
1/12/2011 12:01:00 PM
I don't have step parents, but my parents are divorced and seeing other people. I don't think I would ever refer to either of them as a step parent if my parents got remarried because I think I'm too old for it, but both of them are great people and I am happy that my parents have them in their lives.
asking_for_it
1/12/2011 12:19:00 PM
my mom is a for-real lesbian now. so i have a pseudo-non-traditional step mom. she's cool as shit though. my dad never remarried but has a date on saturday. i've yet to meet her but i'm sure i'll get along with her too. my parents have shown nothing but care and respect for the girls i've brought home so i always reciprocate that back to them.
mandakatzz(deleted)
1/12/2011 12:37:00 PM
Originally posted by: Chris_High

I had a Step-Mom pretty much my whole life. She was always a royal scumbag, talking shit all the time about my sister calling her fat and lazy when my sister was only like 13 or 14, the bitch also worked us like slaves and made comments about she hoped our Mom would get into a car accident when she would come to visit us and shit. My Dad and her got married after like eleven years together when I was like 16 and year later he got Cancer for the first time. He had surgery and seemed to have beaten it but about a year after that it came back. This time it was horrible, he didnt make it. I was 17 at the time so I was supposed to get like $600 dollars a month from Social Security but she took every dime of it, I was living with my Grandma as soon as my Dad passed I couldnt take it living with her any longer so me and especially my Grandma could have used that money but we never saw any of it. Also come to find out that my Dad's Last Will & Testament were oddly changed a week before he died. In that time he was completely fucked up from the Chemo and all the powerful Opiates they had him on so he was Hallucinating half the time. His signature looks so fucked up, we cant find these so called Notary's that my Stepmom had their to witness it. So obviously fuck that bitch. She is one woman I would kill with my barehands and go to jail for life with a smile on my face.

This is going to happen to me. My mom gave my stepdad power of attorney since she's been in the hospital for months now and now about to go into LTC hospice. She's on FMLA but her leave time is all used up so she's not making any money. I know for a fact he is letting bills lapse cause when I went to pay my car insurance they said the other 2 cars on the policy were late. I told my mom but she said "they must have it wrong" I told my gmom and she said "fuck it! let her trust him she she has decided for years now that her mother and daughter dont mean anything to her". When I asked my mom about a will she said, you need to take the animals cause Brent doesnt want to take care of them. I get nothing. He gets everything. I'm chopped liver. I get 3dogs, a cat and nowhere to live or money to take care of them. I already have 3 dogs at my house, I cant make it 6 dogs. Stupid shit. I dont think there is a way to get the power away from him. I wish.
Chris_High
1/12/2011 12:41:00 PM
Originally posted by: mandakatzz

Originally posted by: Chris_High

I had a Step-Mom pretty much my whole life. She was always a royal scumbag, talking shit all the time about my sister calling her fat and lazy when my sister was only like 13 or 14, the bitch also worked us like slaves and made comments about she hoped our Mom would get into a car accident when she would come to visit us and shit. My Dad and her got married after like eleven years together when I was like 16 and year later he got Cancer for the first time. He had surgery and seemed to have beaten it but about a year after that it came back. This time it was horrible, he didnt make it. I was 17 at the time so I was supposed to get like $600 dollars a month from Social Security but she took every dime of it, I was living with my Grandma as soon as my Dad passed I couldnt take it living with her any longer so me and especially my Grandma could have used that money but we never saw any of it. Also come to find out that my Dad's Last Will & Testament were oddly changed a week before he died. In that time he was completely fucked up from the Chemo and all the powerful Opiates they had him on so he was Hallucinating half the time. His signature looks so fucked up, we cant find these so called Notary's that my Stepmom had their to witness it. So obviously fuck that bitch. She is one woman I would kill with my barehands and go to jail for life with a smile on my face.

This is going to happen to me. My mom gave my stepdad power of attorney since she's been in the hospital for months now and now about to go into LTC hospice. She's on FMLA but her leave time is all used up so she's not making any money. I know for a fact he is letting bills lapse cause when I went to pay my car insurance they said the other 2 cars on the policy were late. I told my mom but she said "they must have it wrong" I told my gmom and she said "fuck it! let her trust him she she has decided for years now that her mother and daughter dont mean anything to her". When I asked my mom about a will she said, you need to take the animals cause Brent doesnt want to take care of them. I get nothing. He gets everything. I'm chopped liver. I get 3dogs, a cat and nowhere to live or money to take care of them. I already have 3 dogs at my house, I cant make it 6 dogs. Stupid shit. I dont think there is a way to get the power away from him. I wish.

You might be able to figure something out, talk to a lawyer if you can.

I also forgot to mention other than stealing my social security after he died she took all the money that he left to her bought a brand new Mustang, Hot Tub, a Tattoo ( my Dad was against tattoos and she always claimed to be when he was alive), Boob Job and shacked up with some dude and his WIFE. She eventually ended up in Tennessee last we all heard and havent heard from her since. My Father's home was taken by the bank and sold, this house had been in my family for awhile it was my Great Grandmothers originally.