Alpha Chicks 400 replies, 178799 views

sherman
2/9/2011 12:11:00 PM
Any other ladiez on here feel like they are an alpha? Does it scare other dudes? Do you have a hard time finding the right person to be in a relationship with?

I am an extreme alpha. I consider myself a strong woman who does not take shit and some guys really just cannot handle that I don't want to bow down to them. This happened to my 2nd to last love interest. This guy and I would constantly go back and forth and neither of us would budge. He still texts/leaves me voicemails about how he's going to "win". I find it really hard to let the guy lead and it's difficult for me to embrace the femininity in my personality (or lack thereof). It's kind of annoying.

P.S. Dudes say they LOVEEEE independent/strong women. They don't.
sidney
2/9/2011 12:14:00 PM
my wife = alpha
Yodel Toast
2/9/2011 12:15:00 PM
I hate being the alpha, I need a guy who is the alpha and when I meet guys who aren't, they annoy me. Its just not right to me if I feel more powerful than the guy, haha.

weird, I know.
sherman
2/9/2011 12:16:00 PM
Not weird at all. I rarely meet dudes who will put me in my place. That's what I need.
Dan.
2/9/2011 12:16:00 PM
I don't have a problem with somebody being independent but not willing to compromise means I'm not interested.
Dan.
2/9/2011 12:17:00 PM
Also, last 2 replies are awesome.
brenoritvrezorkre
2/9/2011 12:17:00 PM
why do relationships have to be power struggles; what ever happened to mutuality?
Yodel Toast
2/9/2011 12:18:00 PM
Originally posted by: sherman

Not weird at all. I rarely meet dudes who will put me in my place. That's what I need.

this.
yantastic
2/9/2011 12:18:00 PM
I'm fairly certain paul brown thinks he's my alpha chick but I don't care what he says we're not moving to Vermont.
sherman
2/9/2011 12:19:00 PM
Originally posted by: Dan.

I don't have a problem with somebody being independent but not willing to compromise means I'm not interested.

I took out the part about compromise. I don't know why I said that.
Dan.
2/9/2011 12:19:00 PM
You're just a strong independent woman, that's why.
Heatherquest
2/9/2011 12:24:00 PM
Originally posted by: rain king

why do relationships have to be power struggles; what ever happened to mutuality?

This. I consider myself an alpha female, but I've been with both a beta male and an alpha male... neither worked out. Beta males are worse, though. I can't stand when a dude is a complete and total bitch, because I usually end up feeling like his mother. On the other hand, the power struggle that comes with dating an alpha male is unbearable. In my experience, alpha males try to break me down. I can't win.
Yodel Toast
2/9/2011 12:27:00 PM
Originally posted by: Heatherquest

Originally posted by: rain king

why do relationships have to be power struggles; what ever happened to mutuality?

This. I consider myself an alpha female, but I've been with both a beta male and an alpha male... neither worked out. Beta males are worse, though. I can't stand when a dude is a complete and total bitch, because I usually end up feeling like his mother. On the other hand, the power struggle that comes with dating an alpha male is unbearable. In my experience, alpha males try to break me down. I can't win.

this is where I step in.
sherman
2/9/2011 12:29:00 PM
I don't so much want to control anyone else. I just want to be in control of myself. I can't take a dude who tries to, like Heather said, break me down and try to have one up on me.
Heatherquest
2/9/2011 12:29:00 PM
Originally posted by: Yodel Toast

Originally posted by: Heatherquest

Originally posted by: rain king

why do relationships have to be power struggles; what ever happened to mutuality?

This. I consider myself an alpha female, but I've been with both a beta male and an alpha male... neither worked out. Beta males are worse, though. I can't stand when a dude is a complete and total bitch, because I usually end up feeling like his mother. On the other hand, the power struggle that comes with dating an alpha male is unbearable. In my experience, alpha males try to break me down. I can't win.

this is where I step in.

Hahaha, don't tempt me. I would be an awesome lesbian.
Heatherquest
2/9/2011 12:31:00 PM
Originally posted by: sherman

I don't so much want to control anyone else. I just want to be in control of myself. I can't take a dude who tries to, like Heather said, break me down and try to have one up on me.

Exactly fucking right. Pride and disrespect usually complicate the hell out of the situation.
yantastic
2/9/2011 12:32:00 PM
Problem is, many people who think they're Alphas are really just spoiled needy children who think that by always pushing to get their way they are dominant leader types.
Dianana
2/9/2011 12:32:00 PM
I think we're pretty even and I can't type all of the stuff out that makes that so.

All I know is that I'm glad he's never looked at me as an incubator or the person who needs to clean the house. Even though we may shit out a jerk off leech and I don't trust anyone but myself to clean.
Dianana
2/9/2011 12:33:00 PM
Originally posted by: Heatherquest

Originally posted by: rain king
Beta males are the worst

sherman
2/9/2011 12:35:00 PM
That's probably true, Yan. However, I don't feel like I'm one of those types of Alphas. My sister, on the other hand, is exactly that.
XWHISKEYX
2/9/2011 12:37:00 PM
I dont like beta chicks, Im actually drawn more to females who can be real bitches haha. I can be a handful and need someone who can give it just as well as she can take it.
Pb609
2/9/2011 12:38:00 PM
Originally posted by: yantastic

Problem is, many people who think they're Alphas are really just spoiled needy children who think that by always pushing to get their way they are dominant leader types.

Originally posted by: yantastic

Problem is, many people who think they're Alphas are really just spoiled needy children who think that by always pushing to get their way they are dominant leader types.

Originally posted by: yantastic

Problem is, many people who think they're Alphas are really just spoiled needy children who think that by always pushing to get their way they are dominant leader types.

cole
2/9/2011 12:40:00 PM
I don't define myself with greek letters. Fuck all of you.


syke. Im totes an epsilon. amirite?
brenoritvrezorkre
2/9/2011 12:40:00 PM
Originally posted by: Pb609

Originally posted by: yantastic

Problem is, many people who think they're Alphas are really just spoiled needy children who think that by always pushing to get their way they are dominant leader types.

Originally posted by: yantastic

Problem is, many people who think they're Alphas are really just spoiled needy children who think that by always pushing to get their way they are dominant leader types.

Originally posted by: yantastic

Problem is, many people who think they're Alphas are really just spoiled needy children who think that by always pushing to get their way they are dominant leader types.

ktleungusa
2/9/2011 12:41:00 PM
Originally posted by: yantastic

Problem is, many people who think they're Alphas are really just spoiled needy children who think that by always pushing to get their way they are dominant leader types.

Walktheblock
2/9/2011 12:41:00 PM
I don't know which personality type I am, but I definitely would get bored with some one who has no spine. Definitely more into alpha females.