I’m shutting the door on a lot of people. I always feel like it’s my fault when someone treats me badly and I’m coming to realize that it is because I continue to let them stay in my life. Maybe the first step towards achieving happiness is to stop being a doormat and giving love to people who don’t love me back.
Some situational awareness is the best thing without a lot of training. You’re also much more likely to be assaulted by someone you know. So the nice guy who walks you to your car is more likely to harm you than some mysterious villain.
Ive never gambled because my luck is complete shit most of the time with anything involving chance. Well one time I was at a conference at the borgata and during a break fed $20 into a slot machine and won nothing. Thats it.
One time I was at a company picnic and had to duck off in the woods to take a shit because the lines were long for the bathroom. Long story short an old lady on a hike came up on me mid shit which happened to be the same moment I realized I hadnt squatted enough and had taken a whole shit directly into my pants. Barely got myself cleaned up and wanted to leave but somehow got talked into playing softball with a shitty ass and no underwear. Worst day ever.