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Victor Smallwood 0 posts
7/13/2015 10:08:00 PM

Nice to meet you. So far, you know my name and my age, and you have a squashed black and white photo of me singing into a microphone, and not much else. I assure you by the end of this email you will know a lot more. To begin with, if the profile doesn't say, I live in Winnipeg, Manitoba, Canada, and was born here, and except for a couple of years where we moved to Oromocto, New Brunswick, also in Canada when I was about 8, have lived here all my life. I have travelled not very much, but hope to one day, when the right situation comes along. I should let you know that I have 3 boys (aged 16, 12, and 5), who live with their mother. I currently live with my dad and stepmom until I can save enough to get a place of my own, which is difficult when you're paying child support for three kids, but it still beats living in my kids' mom's basement like I had for the past 15 or so years, wasting my life and being miserable. As you can tell by now, I am really upfront and honest. I don't play games, I have nothing to hide, and I tell it like it is. If it is something you are interested in, read on, and maybe write me back, and we will get to know each other more. But if it turns out you aren't, don't waste your time, and please don't waste mine. I work in a warehouse that distributes medical textbooks to the universities and hospital bookstores across Canada. I am the shipper, and have been doing an excellent job for the company I work for, the past 10 years. I don't make as much money as I could in another company, or even another field, but they have a really good benefit plan, and the hours are solid, full time, no weekends, and very little overtime. Just walk in, do your job, walk out type of situation. I never had the money to go to university myself, but I do have my high school diploma, and am intelligent, expressive and insightful enough to have people remark that my intelligence is one of my most attractive qualities.

I should let you know that I have never had my licence, so, obviously, I don't drive and don't own a car. I take the bus to work, walk a lot, bike often, and lead a pretty active life compared to a lot of guys my age. I do have some vices, I smoke (but could quit), and I drink (beer mostly) socially, which means mostly on the weekends, or the odd outing during the week. I am not a threat to anybody, as I don't drink heavily, and can handle my alcohol, as I am not addicted to it. I have never hit a woman or child ever, and, while I get annoyed with certain things, it is nothing but mild annoyance, nothing more. I have a few close friends that I hang out with, and have known for years, as well as bandmates, former bandmates, and various other friends and acquaintances that keep me on my toes and keep my life interesting. I should also let you know that I am extremely loyal to the ones that earn my respect, and respect me in kind, and that includes someone I choose to be romantically involved with. I have been cheated on, I know how much it hurts, and, so I have never cheated. Music is extremely important to me. I am the lead vocalist in an original metal band called Rage of Reason, in which I write lyrics for. I'm proud to be a part of this band, and the future is bright. I sing karaoke once in awhile for fun, and listen to music (too many artists/bands/styles/eras to mention) constantly. It is my passion.

I could tell you about hobbies, sports (play/watch on TV), family, background, religious leanings, and other things I haven't touched on, but I will leave those for another day if you wish to reply. I will leave you with what I'm looking for in a friend and maybe more down the line. I love a girl with a sense of humour, intelligence, a quiet confidence, an adventurous side, someone who won't fall to pieces if we spend a little time apart doing other things with friends from time to time, her friends or mine, someone who is not afraid to have an alternate point of view and can respect the same from me. I am not afraid to show my feelings, whatever they may be, because I am human, and she should feel comfortable enough to do the same around me. And, finally, I am a very attentive, and romantic person, if I care for someone, they know it. I write poetry, and I know how to write very well. A letter from me is like I'm sitting across from you having a conversation. I have the ability to pull you into my world. I will wait for a reply for you, and send you a couple of pictures so you have a better idea who you're speaking with.

nicdog123 0 posts
3/28/2014 11:04:00 AM
your so gorgeous
am Melinda Adams by name am a very passionate and honest girl with full of love,honesty,and caring.am new on here to seek for an honest and open minded man for a serious relationship though am not often on here for some reasons but will like the interested ones to contact me through my private email address so that i will tell more about me and also send some of my pictures in my next reply.. waiting to hear from you..see my email address below (melindaadams2012@hotmail.com)